Transformation and “Becoming”

Introduction

Welcome to the second post in our Real Knowledge Series, where we delve deeper into ideas inspired by J. Krishnamurti and share how these insights resonate in both personal and professional contexts. In our first post, we focused on the distinction between practical knowledge and psychological knowledge, exploring how that divide influences our growth.

Now, we turn to Point #2: Transformation and the Illusion of “Becoming.” Krishnamurti challenges the commonly held belief that profound change happens solely through gradual improvement or the passage of time. Instead, he suggests a more radical perspective on what constitutes true transformation.

1. The Illusion of “Becoming”

Krishnamurti uses the term “becoming” to describe the ongoing pursuit of an ideal self or a future state of mind where we imagine ourselves to be “better,” “smarter,” or “happier.” While this striving may feel motivating, it often introduces:

Endless Comparison
- We compare ourselves to our own ideals or to others, fixated on who we think we should be.
- This can breed constant dissatisfaction, since our sense of self-worth remains tied to an ever-shifting target.
Dependence on Time
- We assume that eventually we will change—after we gain enough knowledge, refine our willpower, or achieve outward success.
- Krishnamurti suggests that psychological reliance on time keeps us rooted in the same patterns, perpetuating the idea that tomorrow holds the key to transformation.

2. Why Gradual Change May Not Be Enough

Superficial vs. Fundamental

Many self-improvement philosophies emphasize incremental change: building new habits, routines, or positive affirmations. While these can help on a surface level (much like practical knowledge), Krishnamurti points out that deeper psychological shifts don’t always follow from steady, gradual improvement.
When we rely solely on the incremental model, we might overlook the possibility of a radical shift in perception—the kind that occurs when we see something about ourselves with utmost clarity, right now, beyond a step-by-step approach.

3. The Nature of True Transformation

Direct Insight in the Present

Krishnamurti speaks of immediate insight—a moment of seeing a situation so clearly that it changes us then and there. For example, recognizing—fully and unequivocally—that a deep-seated belief is causing tension can result in that belief losing its grip immediately.

Contextual Example: In open, fast-paced environments (like Dubai), many of us realize that past assumptions about success, relationships, or personal limits don’t match the new reality. Sometimes that realization isn’t slow or forced—it’s an instant shift in perspective.

Freedom from the Past

Such transformation doesn’t rely on the accumulation of better habits; it arises from observing our thoughts and emotions without any preconceived lens. Over time, we become more adept at noticing when outdated biases or emotional patterns surface.

4. Misconceptions About Radical Change

It’s easy to misinterpret “immediate transformation” as a sudden, once-and-done miracle. Krishnamurti clarifies that clear, unclouded perception can happen at any moment:

Ongoing Awareness: We may experience multiple instances of clarity in different areas—workplace relationships, personal ambitions, or family dynamics—and each instance can lead to real, immediate shifts.
Cumulative Impact: These insights, while not part of a linear “self-improvement plan,” often lead to sustained change over time because they alter how we perceive and respond to everyday life.

5. A Quick Exercise

Consider this simple awareness practice:

Identify a Current Conflict: It could be a work dilemma, a personal relationship issue, or a creative project that feels stuck.
Observe Without Strategy: Rather than thinking about “how to fix it,” pause and look directly at the thoughts and emotions that arise. What do they reveal about your deeper assumptions or fears?
Notice the Urge to “Become”: Are you telling yourself a story about “someday” being free of this? What if transformation meant seeing the root cause today?

By focusing on this present-moment clarity, we can discover unexpected insights into our motivations and obstacles.

Closing Thoughts

“Becoming” often implies a better tomorrow, with self-improvement actions adding up to something life-changing. Krishnamurti’s view challenges us to consider that profound transformation might come from direct insight in the present, rather than a drawn-out process across time.

Have you ever experienced a moment of sudden clarity—where your perspective changed on the spot? We welcome you to share your experiences in the comments or connect with us on LinkedIn for further discussion.

Look out for our next entry in the Real Knowledge Series, where we’ll explore Direct Perception—how to see “what is” without the usual interference of “what should be.”